Tips on How to Show Your Girlfriend You Care
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Even the most independent strong women need to feel cared for. It is in women’s nature that they all want to be nurtured and loved. There are lots of ways that you can show her how much you care for her and it doesn’t have to be expensive to do that. It also doesn’t mean that you have to go back to old school ways or be the knight in shining armor to be able to do that. Here are some subtle deeds that would be enough to let her know that you care.
Be Physically Attentive. Simple body language would definitely make the point. This is the time that you can show her some of you gentlemanly moves like getting her coat or opening a door for her. This kind of attentiveness will show her that you’re physically and mentally in the moment with her.
Make Room for Her. Arranging your room so that she can have her own spot, stocking your pantry with her favorite food or buying her favorite beer and putting it in your fridge are things that are considered priceless for her. Creating a physical space in your own world for her will make her feel appreciated and would definitely mean that you are sensitive to her comforts.
Try to help Lighten Her Load. When your girl is going crazy with all the things that she has to do and the chores that she has to juggle with her workload then it’s time for you to come in and offer some help. Lightening up her load would allow her to focus on more important things.
Don’t Try to Solve Her Problems. Whenever she talks about her problems or she’s bitching about her colleagues or her boss, she just wants to let things out of her system so she could function properly. That doesn’t mean that she’s asking you to solve her problems. Trying to solve her problems would make her feel that she is not capable of handling things. So just lend an ear and comfort her.
Women generally place a high premium on things that cannot be measured by money. Although expensive gifts would surely make her happy but this subtle deeds will make her feel loved and will definitely show her that you care.
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